What Will You Become?

Yeah, it's me again. I'm back. So guess what's pretty cool? Newborn babies. Life. What we do with that life. And how it affects what happens to those around us.

Alright, so I held a little baby today. An adorable little baby girl. Not even a month old yet. I love her cute little fingers. Her little feet. Her beautiful eyes. And it all makes me wonder what she'll be like when she's older?

People looked at us as children and thought the same thing. It's a fact. Some even say things like, "Well, she'll be a writer!" or "She'll be a singer!", etc. I'm even guilty of doing that! But it's fun to see things play out, isn't it?

I'm not entirely sure where I'm going with all this. I'm just writing this at random, and I haven't had a main point in all of this at all. Maybe I'll just come up with something on the way...

What about us? Have we grown up to be what others thought we'd be? Maybe someone pointed at one of us and said, "Now there's someone who'll make a difference in the world!" but have we? Have we actually made a difference in the world. I know... I'm young. But if I really tried, I bet I could. Anyone could, if they really tried. So what's stopping you from trying?

Many people die without having made a difference. Do you want to be one of those people?

"For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." ~ Ephesians 2:10

It's Not About Us

A new year is coming. It's usually the time that people starts asking questions. Wondering where to go next. Wondering what to do. Some are making plans. Others are just letting things roll and wondering where they'll end up.

There are those who are sad the year is over. And those who are relieved. Me? I'm a relieved one. I'm happy this year is almost over and done with. I'm excited about the things that could happen this year. The opportunities that could present themselves.

But there's one thing that we usually miss. Something we often go about in the wrong way. Every year, we ask ourselves these same questions "What should I plan for this year?" "What decisions will I make this year?" "Where will my steps take me?"

What we should really be asking is "What is God's plan for me this year?" "What decisions will God make for me?" "Where will God take me?"

We're not living for ourselves, so why are we acting like we're the ones in control of our own lives. We're living for God, so shouldn't we be talking to Him first before making any plans? So many times when we make our own schedules, we forget that God is the one who is in control. We need to constantly be reminded that God wants us to work for Him every year. He wants us to make our decisions with His presence, with His leadership. Because what is a plan if it doesn't include God's calling in our lives?

It's difficult to always stay focused on that though. But one thing that helps is remembering: God gave us everything we have. Shouldn't we give back to Him?

So this year, instead of asking "Where will my plans take me?" ask where GOD'S plans will take you. Because His plans are the only ones that matter.

Happy New Year to everyone!!!!! God bless!!!

Is Salvation The Only Thing? Part 2

Now, in my last blog post, I pondered on whether or not salvation was the only thing God had/has in mind for us. No, I haven't found all the answers, and I doubt I ever will, unless God shows me Himself. But a few things have been revealed to me.

So far, as far as we know, in the beginning God created us to be companions. Some people take this as God being lonely. And others merely as God just figured He might as well make someone to talk to. Why not make a whole universe and add different stars, moons, and planets, where life is only on one planet, called Earth. God wanted companionship. That is why He created us. But we couldn't just survive the way He lives.

So He created Earth. Now this is a little bit confusing for some. Some think that God only created man because He had animals running around everywhere and needed someone to take care of them. But God knows everything. He sees into everything. Yes, even the future. He knew He was going to need man to take care of it all. He's God! And so He made man.

And God had the companionship that He needed. That He wanted. He had man to chill with. And He could come down onto Earth and just hang. But all would not be perfect in Eden. Oh, no. Someone had to sin. Someone had to just flip everything backward. Morons.

Sin. It separates us from God. And sometimes each other. You all know what happens next. Their punished and kicked out of Eden. And that is when everything is really set in motion. Thousands of years later, He sent His Son. So yes, God did create us for companionship and to be with Him, but because of sin, that ended. And the only way we can get that back is if we come to God through salvation. Through Jesus. Because that's the only way.

God may have other reasons for creating us, reasons that He hasn't mentioned, but this is the number one reason. We live to worship Him, we live to follow Him, and we live to come to Him.

I know, this isn't really anything new, it's something that we all knew before, but still... It's something that we should always remember. We should always remember why we were created.

Is Salvation The Only Thing? Part 1

On Monday, in youth a topic came up and ever since then, I've had it pestering me in my head! It's getting annoying and persistent and I'm looking for answers. My question is: Is salvation the only thing God has in mind? Do we just get saved, follow Him, die, and then go to Heaven and worship Him for the rest of our lives? Or is there some other thing? Something we missed? Or just something that He hasn't revealed to us?

God created us for companionship. So He could have someone. He created us to watch and take care of Earth and everything He's created. But is that all? Is that really all? Isn't there more? Isn't there something else?

The main question is, if there is, then WHY has it not been revealed to us? And if it has, then why haven't I found it with all my searching? Is it too big for us to comprehend? Is that why we haven't found it? Or is it something that we CAN figure out, we just haven't looked hard enough?

I think there is another reason... Whether or not God will reveal it to me... Is what I'm wondering. And so this week, I'm beginning a quest. A search. I want answers. And I'll search until I find them.

I'll let you know when I find them... Come back in a few years. ;)

Perfect Christian? Doesn't exist.

Perfect Christian? I don't think so. It doesn't matter what you do, face it, you'll never be perfect. That's just the way things are and will always be. Just because a person becomes a Christian, it does NOT mean they become perfect. Opposite of that. It's harder, as hard as it is to believe.

David, a psalmist says,

"I say to the LORD, “You are my Lord; apart from you I have no good thing.” (Psalm 16:2)

See, we're not perfect, but there is Someone who is. God. And He accepts us no matter what. No matter what we do, He is always there to love and accepts us and welcome us into His waiting arms.

Parents always see their kids as perfect. No matter what they do. They still know their faults, they still know they did something wrong, but they still love them. God is that way with us. He knows we've done wrong things, He knows we've sinned, but when we ask Him to, He wipes it all away. He cleans our slate. And still accepts us into His family with loving open arms.

Such a loving and perfect Father! Amen?

"On the last and greatest day of the Feast, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice, "If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him." - John 7:37-38

"All who are thirsty, All who are weak, Come to the fountain, Dip your heart in the stream of life. Let the pain and the sorrow Be washed away, In the waves of his mercy. As deep cries out to deep, We sing, Come Lord Jesus come!" -All Who Are Thirsty - Kutless

Communion

Communion. It's not just this thing you do in church. It's not just eating and drinking something. It's not just thinking, "Yeah, I'm a Christian. Drink this. Eat that. Think a little. Done."

No. It's not just any of that. It's so much more. It's so much deeper than that.

When I was little, I would listen to the pastor as he would preach and read the same passage whenever we had communion, and to be honest, I didn't think much of it. I didn't have communion at that age, and I didn't understand why not. But now, I do. Because having communion is a way of recognizing what Jesus did for you on the cross. It's saying, "Hey, Jesus. I know what You did for me and I want to thank You. I want to praise You, for what You did for me. I'm thinking of how You bore my sins on the cross." It's remembering what's been done for you.

Yet, when I was a kid, I would watch the body (the bread) and the blood (the juice) and think, "Hmm. There's a nice snack to tide people over till lunchtime. Lucky people." Hey now! Don't go judging my 5 year old way of thinking, okay! I'm sure if you look way deep down, you'll realize that you thought that way too.

I do hope you get that I think differently now! I don't just have communion to have a little morsel to tide me over till lunchtime. I like having communion because I like how it helps me reflect. It helps spark that connection to Jesus' death and resurrection.

I like it because every once in a while, admit it, we all need that swift kick in the Spiritual petunia to remind us that we're not here because of anything we've done. We're here because of what's been done for us.

"This is not about what you've done, But what's been done for you..."

AH-mazing words from the song "You Are More" by Tenth Avenue North. See, communion is a reminder that we're not here, being sons and daughters of God, because we got here all on our own. We're not just here because we did anything like died for our own sins.

We're here because of what God did for us! He sent us the ultimate sacrifice. He sent His own Son to die for our sins so that we could have eternal life. That is what communion is all about! It's acknowledging the gift of life that we've been given! It's acknowledging that Jesus died for our sins and we need to be reminded of that every once in a while to have a consistent relationship with Him.

Admit it: Without communion, our relationship with Him would go slack. We would stop realizing the love that was behind this sacrifice. We'd brush it off easier. And we'd just think it was no big deal. But you know what? It IS a big deal.

That is what communion is. A reminder about what's been done for us to achieve the relationship with God. Jesus DIED on a cross for our sins just so we could have an eternal life and relationship with God. Can you imagine that? He D-I-E-D for us! For a relationship! And we still have a choice??? If my son had to die for all your sins, I'd make you all believe in a flash! I'd say, "I gave up my son for this, and if you don't believe right this instant, SOMEBODY'S GONNA GET HURT REAAAAAL BAD!"

But God doesn't do that. Not only is He a sacrificial being by sacrificing His son, but He's also a God of choices. He GIVES us a choice to follow or not! He sacrifices His son and THEN says, "Oh, hey, by the way, you have a choice." If that's not AH-mazing, I don't know what is.

That shows how loving our Heavenly Father is. So next time you have communion, I hope you truly do remember what a big deal it is.

Communion. It's not just a snack. It's a relationship.

"While they were eating, Jesus took bread, and when He had given thanks, He broke it and gave it to His disciples, saying, "Take and eat; this is my body." Then He took a cup, and when He had given thanks, He gave it to them saying, "Drink from it, all of you. This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. I tell you, I will not drink from this fruit of the vine from now until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father's kingdom." - Matthew 26:26-27

Forgiveness

Forgiveness. Oh my. What a difficult thing! Sometimes it's easy, and other times hard. It depends what the circumstances are, am I right? If it's one thing I've learned this year, it's forgiveness. Or you could say I was scared into it by a certain Bible verse that I'm sure many people have been scared by.

"For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." - Matthew 6:14-15

I was flipping through Matthew one day, when I stumbled upon that verse, and I've kept it in my head ever since as a reminder. For some people forgiveness is a touchy subject. Maybe something happened that made them bitter towards it. Maybe a friend hurt you and your having trouble letting that go?

Whatever the case may be, it doesn't change that it's difficult, am I right? But you know what? By holding that grudge, it's not benefiting anyone. It's always best to forgive. Does you holding that grudge affect them in any way? No. It doesn't. They'll go on with life, not caring at all and living life like they've done nothing wrong. And you'll be left feeling bitter about it. Not cool. So let me ask you again? What is the benefit of NOT forgiving someone? There is none. What is the benefit of forgiving someone? Everything! You no longer have that bitterness inside and you no longer have that raging anger that makes you want to pop their heads off like barbie dolls! AWESOME, EH? Yes, I think so.

When Jesus was on the cross what did He do? Let's take a look at that in Luke 23 right now.

32. Two other men, both criminals, were also led out with him to be executed.

33. When they came to the place called the Skull, the crucified him there, along with the criminals- one on his right, the other on his left.

34. Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.

Can you believe it? Jesus is there being tortured and nailed to a cross and he asks God to forgive them!!! UNBELIEVABLE! But yet, that's how forgiving Jesus was. And is. And that's how forgiving we need to be. That's what they mean by forgiving those who hurt us. We need to be like God in that way. He forgives every single thing we do, no matter how big, and no matter how small! We need to be like that. If someone hurts you, you need to forgive them.

"And whenever you stand and praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses." - Mark 11:25

"Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times? Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven." -Matthew 18:21-22

"Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven." -Luke 6:36-37

"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." -Ephesians 4:32

"Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook and offense." -Proverbs 19:11

And like I said in my previous post on Love Your Enemies (http://daughteroftheone.blogspot.com/2011/05/just-to-let-you-know-this-isnt-for-my.html)

"To the contrary, "if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head."

Then his master summoned him and said to him, "You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?" And in his anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." -Matthew 18:32-35

Stephen was the perfect example of forgiveness:

"And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, "Lord Jesus, receive my spirit." And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them." And when he had said this, he fell asleep." -Acts 7:59-60

So was Paul:

"At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them!" -2nd Timothy 4:16

And Joseph as well:

"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today. So do not fear; I will provide for you and your little ones" Thus he comforted them and spoke kindly to them." -Genesis 50:20-21

Why don't you give it a go?

Remember: ‎Forgiveness doesn't always mean forgetting... It doesn't always mean being best friends again with the person that hurt you. It means moving on from the hurt. It means knowing that the hurt is there, but not acting on the anger that it produced. It means learning to let go. And it means being able to greet that person with a smile on your face, no matter what.

The first step to forgiveness is acknowledging that it hurt you and learning how to move on from that hurt.

The second step: Overcome the anger that it gives you. Reading scriptures help a lot.

The third step: Greeting that person with a smile and showing God's love.

Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving. - Dale Carnegie